Wedding planning is exciting — but it’s also filled with advice, opinions and “rules” that can overwhelm even the most laid-back couple. The truth? Many of the things you’ve heard about planning a wedding simply aren’t true. At Abbington Distinctive Banquets in Glen Ellyn, we help couples plan unforgettable celebrations every week, so we’ve heard just about every myth out there. Let’s debunk the most common ones!
1. “You have to plan your wedding at least two years in advance.”
While some couples choose a long engagement, it’s far from required. Plenty of stunning weddings come together beautifully in 12 months — or even 6 months — especially when you choose a venue with an experienced in-house planning team. (Hi, that’s us!)
2. “Weddings must happen on a Saturday.”
Saturday is popular, but Fridays and Sundays are becoming just as trendy. Weekday weddings are also on the rise — they come with great availability, and sometimes even better pricing.
3. “Bigger weddings are more expensive.”
Not always! Costs depend on menu, décor, season and vendor choices. Some intimate weddings end up being more elaborate (and pricey) than large classic receptions. Your vision determines your budget — not your headcount.
4. “DIY always saves money.”
Sometimes DIY projects cost more in time, materials and stress than hiring a professional. Plus, pros ensure everything looks polished. Leave décor, florals and production to the experts — you should be relaxing and enjoying the planning process.
5. “You have to invite everyone you know.”
Nope! Invite the people who matter most. Your wedding should feel meaningful, not obligatory. The trend toward smaller, heartfelt celebrations is stronger than ever.
6. “All vendors book up immediately.”
Some vendors do book early — like photographers and bands — but others have more flexibility. That’s why working with Abbington’s in-house event team is so helpful. We guide you through the ideal booking order and connect you with trusted pros.
7. “You have to stick to tradition.”
No rulebook required. First looks, walking down the aisle alone, mismatched bridal parties, themed weddings — couples are personalizing everything. Your day should feel like YOU.
8. “You need a huge budget for a beautiful wedding.”
Not true. Thoughtful planning, choosing a versatile venue and working with experienced coordinators can create a breathtaking celebration at any budget. Off-peak dates, winter weddings and Fridays often offer great value.
9. “Planning is stressful from start to finish.”
It doesn’t have to be. With the right venue and support team, wedding planning can be smooth, organized and (dare we say it?) actually fun. Abbington’s culinary team, coordinators and preferred vendors simplify every step.
10. “Something always goes wrong.”
While little surprises can pop up, a strong vendor team prevents most hiccups — and handles everything behind the scenes so you never even know. Your only job on your wedding day is to enjoy every moment.
Don’t let the myths fool you
Wedding planning is a journey, and you deserve guidance rooted in experience — not outdated rules or internet rumors. Whether you’re planning 18 months ahead or pulling things together quickly, Abbington Banquets is here to help you every step of the way. Explore our wedding packages, meet our in-house planning team and schedule a tour when you’re ready to start planning a celebration that reflects your vision — not the myths.
