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Saturday has traditionally been the big day for weddings.

And there’s a reason for it. Most guests aren’t working the next morning, there’s plenty of time to get ready, and nobody has to explain to their boss why they’re suddenly feeling a little “under the weather” on Monday.

But Saturday isn’t your only option.

Friday and Sunday weddings have become increasingly popular, and depending on your priorities, one of them might actually be a better fit for your celebration.

At Abbington Distinctive Banquets, we’ve hosted weddings on every day of the week since 2002. The truth is that there isn’t one universally “best” day to get married. There’s a best day for your wedding.

Let’s look at the advantages and considerations of Friday, Saturday and Sunday weddings to help you decide.

Why Are Saturday Weddings So Popular?

Let’s start with the classic.

Saturday is still the first day many couples picture when they imagine their wedding. Guests generally have the day off, they can arrive without rushing from work, and most have Sunday available to recover or travel home.

That convenience is hard to beat.

Saturday also works especially well for weddings with a large number of out-of-town guests. People can travel on Friday, attend the wedding Saturday and return home Sunday without necessarily taking multiple days away from work.

If you’re planning a late-night celebration with a packed dance floor, Saturday certainly has its advantages too.

Nobody has to watch the clock quite as closely.

The Biggest Challenge With Saturday Weddings: Everyone Wants Saturday

The same things that make Saturdays convenient also make them popular.

Prime Saturday dates can be among the first dates booked at popular Chicago-area wedding venues, particularly during the busiest wedding seasons.

If you’ve fallen in love with a specific venue but only have a handful of Saturdays that work, you may need to reserve your date well in advance.

This is especially important if you’re planning your wedding around a particular month, holiday weekend, meaningful anniversary or the availability of another important vendor.

If the venue matters more to you than the day of the week, being open to Friday or Sunday can suddenly give you considerably more flexibility.

Why Consider a Friday Wedding?

Friday weddings deserve more attention than they get.

There’s something about finishing the workweek and immediately heading into a wedding that makes the celebration feel like the official start of the weekend.

And for the couple, choosing Friday can open up wedding dates that might not be available on Saturday.

Friday can be particularly appealing if you have your heart set on a specific season or date range. Instead of competing for a small number of Saturdays, you instantly have another set of possibilities.

Depending on the venue, season and package, Friday weddings may also offer different pricing or package opportunities. It’s always worth asking when you compare wedding options.

Friday Gives You the Entire Weekend After the Wedding

This might be our favorite argument for Friday.

You get married Friday night.

Then you wake up Saturday morning and realize…

It’s still the weekend.

For couples with lots of friends and family coming into Chicago, that can be fantastic.

Saturday can become a relaxed brunch, a family gathering, a trip into the city or simply a chance to spend more time with people you don’t get to see very often.

Instead of everyone immediately packing their bags and heading home the morning after your wedding, you have another full day together.

The Trade-Off With a Friday Wedding

The obvious consideration is work.

Your wedding party and some guests may need to take Friday afternoon — or the entire day — off, especially if they need time to get ready or travel.

That’s why communication matters.

If you’re planning a Friday wedding, send your save-the-dates early and make the day of the week obvious. Give guests enough notice to request time off, make travel arrangements and reserve a hotel if necessary.

The more advance notice you provide, the easier Friday becomes.

Why Consider a Sunday Wedding?

Sunday offers many of the same advantages as Friday: greater date flexibility and the possibility of different package or pricing options depending on the venue and season.

But Sunday has its own personality.

A Sunday wedding can be elegant, relaxed and incredibly enjoyable. It can work beautifully for an afternoon ceremony followed by dinner and dancing, or for couples who simply don’t need the reception to continue until the very last possible minute.

Guests traveling from nearby Chicago suburbs can often attend without changing their entire weekend schedule, while out-of-town guests can arrive Friday or Saturday and make a weekend of the celebration.

Sunday Weddings Can Be Great for Families

If your guest list includes lots of families, older relatives or guests who aren’t necessarily looking for a 1:00 a.m. dance-floor finale, Sunday can be an excellent fit.

You can still have cocktails, dinner, music and plenty of dancing.

You simply have the option of starting earlier.

An earlier celebration can also make the day easier for grandparents, parents with young children and guests traveling home that evening.

And there’s something undeniably nice about a Sunday afternoon filled with great food, champagne and everyone you love.

But What About Work on Monday?

That’s the big Sunday question.

Some guests may leave a little earlier knowing Monday morning is waiting for them.

That doesn’t have to be a dealbreaker.

Consider moving the entire timeline earlier rather than planning a traditional Saturday-night schedule on a Sunday. Starting your ceremony, cocktail hour and reception earlier allows guests to enjoy the full celebration without feeling like they’re making a terrible decision every time they look at the clock.

Of course, some groups couldn’t care less that Monday exists.

You know your crowd better than we do.

What About a Holiday Weekend?

Holiday weekends can change the equation entirely.

A Sunday wedding before a Monday holiday can function a lot like a Saturday wedding. Guests may have the following day off, which can make Sunday an extremely attractive option.

But holiday weekends come with their own considerations.

Flights and hotels may be more expensive. Roads and airports can be busier. Some guests may have longstanding family traditions or vacation plans.

If you’re considering Memorial Day weekend, Labor Day weekend or another major holiday, check travel and hotel logistics before committing.

Abbington’s Glen Ellyn location offers convenient access to Chicago’s western suburbs, major highways and nearby accommodations. Our location information can help you begin thinking through travel for your guests.

Think About Your Out-of-Town Guests

The best wedding day isn’t only about your schedule.

Think about where your guests are coming from.

If most of your guest list lives in Glen Ellyn, Naperville, Downers Grove, Wheaton, Lombard or surrounding western suburbs, Friday and Sunday may be relatively easy options.

If a significant percentage is flying into Chicago, you’ll want to think more carefully about arrival and departure times.

Abbington is accessible from both O’Hare and Midway, with nearby hotel options that make it possible for guests to stay close to the celebration rather than traveling back into downtown Chicago after the reception.

For a large wedding with many traveling guests, hotel blocks and transportation can be just as important as choosing the day itself.

Your Vendors Matter Too

There’s another potential benefit to choosing Friday or Sunday that couples don’t always consider: vendor availability.

Your favorite photographer, videographer, florist, band or DJ may already be booked on popular Saturdays.

Ask about Friday or Sunday and suddenly the conversation may change.

This can be particularly helpful if there’s a wedding professional you absolutely want to work with.

Abbington has longstanding relationships with preferred wedding vendors throughout Chicago and the western suburbs, and many of them know our ballrooms, team and event procedures extremely well.

Don’t Pick a Date Before Checking Your Most Important People

Before signing a contract, think about the handful of people who absolutely need to be there.

Parents. Siblings. Grandparents. Best friends. Members of the wedding party.

You don’t need to survey all 250 people on your preliminary guest list. In fact, please don’t. You’ll never choose a date.

But checking with your essential people can prevent an unfortunate surprise after you’ve committed.

Then pick the date that works for you and start planning.

Friday, Saturday or Sunday: A Quick Comparison

Choose Friday if…

• You want more flexibility when selecting your wedding date.
• You love the idea of having the entire weekend after your wedding.
• Most guests can reasonably take some time away from work.
• You want to explore different package or pricing possibilities.
• You have a specific venue or vendor that’s unavailable on Saturday.

Choose Saturday if…

• Guest convenience is your biggest priority.
• You have many out-of-town guests.
• You want a late-night celebration without guests worrying about work the next morning.
• Your preferred Saturday date is available.
• You don’t mind planning farther ahead to secure a popular date.

Choose Sunday if…

• You prefer an earlier or slightly more relaxed celebration.
• You want more flexibility with dates and vendors.
• Many of your guests live locally.
• You’re considering a holiday weekend.
• You want to explore alternatives to peak Saturday availability.

There Is No Wrong Day for a Great Wedding

We’ve hosted enough weddings since 2002 to know that nobody walks onto the dance floor thinking, “This would be so much more fun if today were Saturday.”

Once the people you love are in the room, dinner is being served, the music starts and the celebration is underway, the day printed on the calendar becomes considerably less important.

What matters is choosing a date that works for your priorities, your most important guests and the wedding you actually want to have.

Find Your Perfect Wedding Date at Abbington

If you’re searching for a wedding venue in the Chicago area or western suburbs, don’t limit your venue search to Saturday nights before you’ve explored all of your options.

Friday might give you the weekend you’ve always wanted. Sunday might be the perfect fit for your family. Saturday might still be exactly right.

At Abbington Distinctive Banquets, our experienced in-house wedding planning team can help you compare available dates, ballroom options, guest counts and wedding packages to find the combination that works for your celebration.

The best day to get married isn’t necessarily Saturday. It’s the day that lets you have the wedding you want.

Contact Abbington today to schedule a tour, check available wedding dates and start planning your Abbington moment.

Ask people what they remember from a wedding five years later.

They may not remember the centerpieces. They probably won’t remember the exact color of the linens. They might even forget what song played during the cake cutting.

But they’ll remember if the food was incredible.

Food is one of the biggest parts of your wedding reception, and it’s one of the few parts of the celebration that almost every single guest experiences. That’s why choosing a Chicago-area wedding venue with an experienced in-house culinary team can make such a difference.

At Abbington Distinctive Banquets, food isn’t something that arrives in catering trays from somewhere else in the city. It’s prepared right here, on-site, by a culinary team that works alongside the same banquet and service professionals responsible for your wedding.

For couples, that means fewer moving pieces. For guests, it means a better dining experience. And for us, it means we can take responsibility for one of the most important parts of your celebration from beginning to end.

Your Wedding Dinner Shouldn’t Have to Travel to Your Wedding

There’s an important difference between food that’s prepared at your wedding venue and food that’s prepared somewhere else, packed for transportation, driven to the venue, unloaded, held and eventually served.

At Abbington, all food is prepared on-site and served in-house.

That gives our culinary and banquet teams much more control over the entire experience — from preparation and timing to presentation and service.

When hundreds of guests are waiting for dinner, timing matters.

We don’t have to wonder when the catering truck is going to arrive.

The kitchen is already here.

The Kitchen and the Ballroom Are Working Together

This is one of the biggest advantages of having food and beverage handled by your wedding venue, and it’s something couples may not immediately consider.

Your wedding dinner doesn’t happen independently from the rest of your reception.

The kitchen needs to know when introductions are finished. The service team needs to know when speeches are happening. Your coordinator needs to understand when dinner should begin. The DJ or band may need to hold off on the next part of the evening until a course has been served.

At Abbington, these aren’t separate companies trying to coordinate with one another for the first time.

They’re one team.

Our planners, culinary staff, banquet captains, servers and bartenders work within the same operation. That familiarity helps the entire reception move naturally from cocktail hour to dinner, speeches, dessert and dancing.

Serving 200 People Is Very Different From Cooking for 200 People

Plenty of restaurants can prepare an amazing dinner for a table of four.

A wedding is different.

Imagine preparing hundreds of entrées and getting them out of the kitchen, across a ballroom and in front of guests while they’re still beautifully presented and at the temperature they’re supposed to be.

Now do it while accommodating special meals, coordinating speeches, clearing previous courses, refilling beverages and keeping the entire reception on schedule.

That’s banquet service.

And it’s a specialized skill.

Abbington has been hosting weddings and large celebrations in Glen Ellyn since 2002. Our culinary and service teams understand what it takes to execute dinner for a large room because that’s what this facility was built to do.

Special Dietary Needs Are Part of Modern Wedding Planning

Take a guest list of a few hundred people and there’s a good chance someone will have a dietary restriction.

Probably several people.

Food allergies, intolerances, vegetarian diets and vegan preferences are increasingly common considerations when planning a wedding menu.

Abbington’s culinary team has experience accommodating individual guests and larger groups with special dietary needs. Our kitchen and service teams work together to carefully handle those requests from preparation through ballroom service.

That’s another reason communication between the kitchen and service staff matters.

A special meal isn’t very helpful if nobody knows which guest is supposed to receive it.

Great Ingredients Still Matter at a Large Wedding

Cooking for hundreds of people shouldn’t mean lowering the standard for what goes onto the plate.

Abbington’s menus use fresh produce, quality meats and spices purchased from local suppliers. Our culinary team can also modify house recipes and menus based on the needs and preferences of the celebration.

It’s one of the reasons we prefer having direct responsibility for the food we serve.

Our name is on the wedding.

We want our name behind the meal too.

Don’t Forget About the Bar

Food gets most of the attention when couples think about catering, but beverage service is another major part of the guest experience.

Cocktail hour may be the first impression guests have of your reception. Then the bar needs to continue operating alongside dinner, speeches and dancing for the rest of the celebration.

When food and beverage service are both handled through the venue, those pieces can be planned together instead of treated as separate operations.

Your bartenders, banquet team and coordinators understand the same timeline and are working toward the same goal: keeping your guests happy and keeping the evening moving.

One Less Major Vendor to Find

Wedding planning already involves a lot of emails.

Photographer. Florist. DJ. Videographer. Transportation. Hair. Makeup. Hotel arrangements. Invitations. Décor.

Do you really want to add researching caterers, arranging kitchen logistics, coordinating rentals and managing another major contract if you don’t have to?

Choosing a full-service wedding venue with an established culinary operation removes one of the largest pieces from your vendor search.

Instead of finding a venue and then figuring out how you’re going to feed everyone inside it, those two decisions are already connected.

That can make the entire planning process considerably simpler.

And for the vendors you do still need, Abbington maintains relationships with experienced wedding professionals who already know our venue and team.

There Are Fewer Surprises When One Team Owns the Experience

This might be the biggest reason of all.

If your venue is one company, your caterer is another, your bar service is another and your rentals come from somewhere else, there are more handoffs between companies.

And every handoff creates another place where communication matters.

• Who is providing the glassware?
• When can the caterer access the kitchen?
• Who handles cleanup?
• Who manages dietary requests?
• Who decides when dinner begins if the wedding is running 20 minutes late?
• Who fixes the problem if something isn’t right?

With an experienced full-service wedding venue, there is much more accountability under one roof.

For couples, that’s valuable.

Good Service Is Part of Good Food

You can prepare the greatest entrée in Chicago and still deliver a disappointing dining experience if the service isn’t there.

The two belong together.

Your guests notice when servers are attentive. They notice when courses arrive smoothly, plates are cleared efficiently, drinks are refreshed and special requests are handled graciously.

And your wedding party notices when the banquet team is paying attention to them instead of making them hunt someone down every time they need something.

Our couples frequently mention Abbington’s service alongside the food when they share their wedding experiences. We’re proud of that because great hospitality isn’t just what comes out of the kitchen. It’s what happens all around the table.

Ask These Questions When Comparing Wedding Venue Food

If you’re touring wedding venues in Chicago or the western suburbs, don’t just ask to see a menu.

Ask how the food actually gets to your guests.

• Is the food prepared on-site?
• Does the venue have its own culinary team?
• Who provides the servers and banquet staff?
• Is beverage service handled in-house?
• Can the menu be customized?
• How are allergies and dietary restrictions handled?
• What service styles are available?
• How does the kitchen coordinate with the wedding timeline?
• How many weddings and large events does the culinary team regularly serve?
• Can you read recent reviews specifically mentioning the food and service?

The answers tell you much more than a beautiful photograph of an entrée ever could.

Your Guests Came to Celebrate. Feed Them Like It.

Your wedding meal is one of the rare moments during the reception when nearly everyone you love is sitting together at the same time.

That’s worth doing well.

For more than two decades, the Fabbri family and the Abbington team have welcomed couples from Chicago, Glen Ellyn, Naperville, Downers Grove and throughout the western suburbs. During that time, we’ve learned that spectacular weddings aren’t created by one thing. They’re the result of hundreds of details working together.

Food is a pretty important one.

When you trust Abbington with your wedding, you’re not hiring a ballroom and then figuring out dinner later. You’re choosing an experienced planning, culinary, beverage and service team that already knows how to work together.

Explore Abbington’s food and beverage options and wedding packages, or schedule a tour of our Glen Ellyn wedding venue and start planning a meal your guests will actually remember.

You book the wedding venue. You pay the deposit. You pick the date.

So… what happens next?

For couples planning their first wedding — which is most couples! — it can be surprisingly difficult to understand exactly what a wedding venue does, what you’re responsible for, and where all of your other vendors fit into the picture.

And the answer can vary dramatically from one venue to another.

Some wedding venues essentially provide you with a beautiful space and a set of keys. From there, you’re responsible for assembling the people, rentals, food, beverages and logistics necessary to turn that space into a wedding.

Other venues offer a much more complete experience.

At Abbington Distinctive Banquets in Glen Ellyn, we’ve been hosting weddings since 2002. One of the biggest advantages of choosing an established full-service wedding venue is that you’re not starting from scratch. You’re stepping into a place where an experienced team, culinary operation, service staff and trusted vendors already know how to make a wedding happen.

Here’s what that can mean for you.

Your Venue Helps Turn an Idea Into an Actual Plan

You may arrive at your first meeting with a Pinterest board, an estimated guest count and a general idea of what you’d like your wedding to feel like.

That’s enough to start.

An experienced venue team can begin translating those ideas into practical decisions: which ballroom makes sense, how your guest count affects the floor plan, how the evening might flow and what needs to happen between now and your wedding day.

At Abbington, our in-house planning team works with couples throughout the process. This isn’t our first wedding weekend. Our team has spent years helping couples navigate the hundreds of little decisions that eventually become one very big day.

That experience is particularly valuable when you don’t know what you’re supposed to be asking yet.

Your Venue Helps You Choose the Right Space

Choosing a ballroom isn’t simply about finding one that can hold your guest count.

Your venue needs to consider how you’re actually going to use it.

Are you having a DJ or a large live band? Do you want an oversized dance floor? A sweetheart table? Multiple bars? A photo booth? Elaborate florals? Food stations? A large wedding party?

All of those choices affect the layout.

A good venue team doesn’t just tell you how many people fit inside a room. They help determine how the room should work for your particular celebration.

Abbington’s flexible ballroom spaces can accommodate weddings ranging from approximately 100 to 1,300 guests, allowing our team to configure the space around the size and style of the wedding rather than treating every reception exactly the same.

Your Venue Can Handle the Food

This is a big one.

At some event spaces, finding a caterer is entirely your responsibility. That means researching catering companies, comparing proposals, arranging tastings, coordinating kitchen requirements and determining how food will be prepared, transported and served at the venue.

Abbington takes a different approach.

Our food and beverage program is handled on-site. Food is prepared in-house by our culinary team and served by a staff that already knows our ballrooms, kitchens and service procedures.

That means the people preparing dinner and the people running your wedding aren’t strangers trying to figure out how to work together for the first time.

They’re already a team.

Our menus can also accommodate a variety of service styles and dietary needs, including food allergies and intolerances as well as vegetarian and vegan preferences.

Your Venue Can Handle the Bar and Beverage Service

Food is only half of the equation.

A wedding bar involves inventory, bartenders, glassware, setup, service, timing and plenty of behind-the-scenes logistics. When your venue provides beverage service in-house, that’s another major piece of your wedding that doesn’t need to be assembled separately.

More importantly, an experienced banquet team understands the rhythm of a wedding.

They know when cocktail hour gets busy. They know what happens when dinner ends and everyone heads toward the bar at once. They know how beverage service needs to work alongside dinner, speeches and dancing.

You probably shouldn’t have to think about any of that on your wedding day.

That’s the point.

Your Venue Helps Coordinate the Timeline

A wedding reception is basically a carefully choreographed sequence of events disguised as a really great party.

Guests arrive.

Cocktail hour begins.

The wedding party is introduced.

Dinner is served.

There are speeches, dances, cake, photos, entertainment and dozens of smaller moments happening in between.

Meanwhile, your photographer has a timeline. Your DJ has a timeline. Your catering team has a timeline. Your florist has setup requirements. Your transportation company has arrival and departure times.

Somebody needs to understand how those pieces fit together.

An experienced venue team helps coordinate the parts of the day happening within the venue so your vendors aren’t all operating in separate worlds.

Your Venue Works With Your Other Wedding Vendors

Your wedding venue may be the home base, but it isn’t the only team involved in your wedding.

Photographers, videographers, florists, DJs, bands, decorators, transportation providers and other professionals may all need access to the property at different times.

Your venue helps manage that relationship.

Where does the band load in? When can the florist begin setup? Where should the photographer take the wedding party? What electrical access does the DJ have? Where does the photo booth go without interrupting guest traffic?

These aren’t glamorous questions, but somebody needs the answers.

One advantage of working with Abbington is our longstanding relationships with Chicago-area wedding professionals. Our preferred vendors have been selected based on experience and reliability, and many already know our team, spaces and procedures.

You’re also not locked into using only those vendors. Couples can bring in outside professionals while still benefiting from Abbington’s experience coordinating with wedding vendors.

Your Venue Handles the Part Guests Never See

This may be the most underappreciated part of choosing a full-service wedding venue.

Think about what your guests experience.

They walk into a beautiful room. Drinks appear. Dinner arrives. Plates disappear. Water glasses are refilled. Tables stay tidy. The room transitions from dinner to dancing. Something spills and then somehow it isn’t there anymore.

Ideally, your guests never stop to wonder how any of it happened.

Behind that experience is a banquet staff working throughout the evening.

Great wedding service should almost feel invisible. The details are handled before they become something you or your guests have to think about.

Your Venue Helps You Prepare for the Unexpected

Every couple hopes their wedding will unfold exactly according to plan.

Most of the time, it does.

But weddings involve people, weather, traffic, vendors, timelines and hundreds of moving parts. Things change.

A vendor runs late. A guest needs a special meal. Someone unexpectedly brings a plus-one. A timeline shifts. A family member needs assistance. The speeches take longer than expected.

Experience matters most when the plan stops being perfectly predictable.

An established wedding venue has seen enough celebrations to know how to adjust without turning every little surprise into a crisis.

In fact, if the team is doing its job well, you may never even know there was a problem.

Your Venue Can Make Vendor Shopping Easier

Once you’ve booked a wedding venue, the next question is usually: Who else do we need?

That’s where an established venue’s network can save you a tremendous amount of time.

Instead of starting every Google search from zero, you can ask your venue which photographers have worked there successfully, which DJs know how to keep the room moving, which florists understand the space and which transportation providers regularly serve the area.

Abbington has developed relationships with trusted wedding vendors throughout Chicago and the western suburbs. Many have worked here repeatedly, which means they aren’t learning the property on your wedding day.

That familiarity can make coordination considerably easier.

Your Venue Helps Take Care of Your Guests

You’re planning your wedding, but you’re also hosting a lot of people.

Your venue plays a major role in their experience.

Is parking easy? Can guests find the entrance? Is there enough room to move comfortably? Are there hotels nearby? Can older relatives navigate the property comfortably? Is the staff welcoming? Is dinner served efficiently?

Abbington offers parking for more than 400 vehicles and is located near several major hotels, with convenient access from I-88 and I-355. Our Glen Ellyn location makes us accessible for guests traveling from Chicago, Naperville, Downers Grove and communities throughout the western suburbs.

For guests flying into Chicago, we’re also conveniently located in relation to both O’Hare and Midway airports. You can find additional travel and accommodation information on our location page.

What Doesn’t Your Wedding Venue Handle?

This is just as important to ask.

No venue handles absolutely everything, and services vary considerably from one property to another.

During your tour, ask exactly what’s included in your wedding package and what will still need to be booked separately.

Depending on your wedding, those outside professionals may include:

• Photography and videography
• DJ or live entertainment
• Specialty décor
• Transportation
• Hair and makeup
• Officiant or ceremony services
• Specialty entertainment

This is also why comparing wedding venues strictly by the initial price can be misleading.

A lower-priced venue that requires you to separately arrange catering, beverages, rentals, staffing and coordination may ultimately be a very different proposition from a venue where much of the infrastructure is already included.

Ask What’s Included Before You Compare Wedding Venues

When you’re comparing Chicago-area wedding venues, don’t just compare ballrooms and package prices.

Compare what you’re actually getting.

• Who helps you plan?
• Who prepares the food?
• Who serves it?
• Who manages the ballroom?
• Who coordinates with your vendors?
• Who is there when something changes?

And perhaps most importantly: how much of this are you going to have to figure out yourself?

A Wedding Venue Should Be More Than a Room

There are plenty of beautiful rooms in the Chicago area.

But a wedding isn’t just a room.

It’s hundreds of decisions, dozens of people, an entire team of vendors, a meal for everyone you love and a timeline that needs to come together on one specific day.

At Abbington, we’ve been bringing those pieces together in Glen Ellyn since 2002. Our experienced planning team, culinary professionals, banquet staff and trusted vendor relationships give couples something that’s difficult to measure in square footage: a team that already knows how to do this together.

Explore our wedding packages, meet the Abbington team or schedule a tour to see what having a full-service wedding venue on your side can mean for your celebration.

When couples start searching for wedding venues in the Chicago area, one of the first numbers they usually look at is capacity. If you’re inviting 200 people, you need a venue that holds 200 people. Simple, right?

Not quite.

There’s a big difference between a room that can technically accommodate your guest count and a room that actually works for the wedding you have planned. Your tables are only the beginning. You need room to eat, drink, dance, mingle, celebrate and move comfortably throughout the night.

After hosting weddings of just about every size since 2002, the team at Abbington Distinctive Banquets knows that finding the right amount of space can make a tremendous difference in how your wedding looks, feels and flows.

Start With Your Guest Count — But Don’t Stop There

Your estimated guest count is still the logical starting point. A wedding for 125 people has very different space requirements than a reception for 400.

But when you’re touring venues, don’t simply ask, “How many people does this room hold?”

Ask what the room will look like with your number of guests and everything else you want in it.

That might include:

• Guest tables and chairs
• A large dance floor
• DJ booth or live band
• Head table or sweetheart table
• Bars and beverage stations
• Cake and dessert displays
• Photo booth
• Gift and card tables
• Floral installations and décor
• Food stations or specialty displays
• Lounge furniture

Suddenly, a room that sounded enormous on paper can get crowded pretty quickly.

Your Dance Floor Needs Room to Come Alive

If you’re dreaming about a packed dance floor, plan for it.

One of the easiest mistakes to make is squeezing too many tables into a ballroom and sacrificing the space guests need once dinner ends and the party begins. You don’t want guests weaving through chairs to reach the dance floor, and you certainly don’t want your DJ or band tucked into whatever corner happens to be left over.

A well-designed reception creates a natural transition from dinner to dancing. Guests should be able to get up, grab a drink, hit the dance floor and return to their tables without creating bottlenecks.

At Abbington, our ballrooms can be configured in numerous ways, giving our experienced planning team the flexibility to create a layout around the celebration rather than forcing the celebration into a predetermined layout.

Think About How Your Guests Will Move Through the Wedding

Space isn’t just about square footage. It’s about flow.

Picture your wedding from your guests’ perspective.

Where do they go when they arrive? Where is cocktail hour? How easily can they find their tables? Can servers move comfortably throughout the ballroom? Is there enough room around the bar? What happens when 50 people decide they want a drink at the same time?

These details might not be the glamorous part of wedding planning, but guests notice when they’re done well.

A beautiful ballroom is important. A beautiful ballroom that functions beautifully is even better.

200 Guests Can Mean Two Very Different Weddings

This is something couples don’t always realize until they begin planning their floor plan.

Imagine two weddings with exactly 200 guests.

The first couple wants a DJ, traditional round tables, a sweetheart table and a large dance floor.

The second wants a 10-piece band, multiple food stations, two bars, an elaborate dessert display, a photo booth, lounge seating and oversized floral installations.

Same guest count. Very different space requirements.

That’s why choosing a venue based solely on its maximum capacity doesn’t tell you enough. Your venue should understand what you’re trying to create before recommending the right ballroom and layout.

Don’t Forget Cocktail Hour

The reception ballroom gets most of the attention, but cocktail hour deserves consideration too.

This is often the first real opportunity your guests have to mingle, grab a drink and settle into the celebration. You want it to feel lively — not congested.

Abbington features a spacious 5,500-square-foot foyer in addition to its ballroom spaces, helping create a comfortable transition as guests move through different parts of the celebration.

That separation can also make the reveal of your reception ballroom feel even more special.

More Space Isn’t Automatically Better

Here’s the other side of the equation: you don’t want a wedding that feels lost inside a room that’s too large.

A 150-person wedding can feel incredibly energetic and intimate when the room is configured correctly. Put those same 150 people into an enormous ballroom without adjusting the layout, and suddenly the celebration can feel scattered.

The goal isn’t to find the biggest wedding venue possible.

The goal is to find a flexible venue that can make the space feel right for your wedding.

Abbington’s Grand Ballroom is divisible into multiple sections, allowing us to accommodate celebrations ranging from approximately 100 to 1,300 guests while creating a setting appropriate to the size and style of the event.

Large Weddings Require More Than a Large Ballroom

If you’re planning a large Chicago-area wedding, space becomes even more important — but so does everything surrounding it.

A guest list of 400, 600 or even 1,000 people means more cars arriving, more guests checking in, more meals being served, more drinks being prepared and significantly more coordination happening behind the scenes.

That’s where experience matters.

Abbington has 20,000 square feet of banquet space and 15,000 square feet of ballroom space, but we’re equally proud of the team responsible for making those spaces work. Our in-house planners, culinary team, banquet staff and service professionals regularly work together on large-scale celebrations.

And because we maintain relationships with experienced preferred wedding vendors, many of the photographers, DJs, florists and other professionals working here already know the venue, the spaces and our team.

Give Your Food and Service Team Room to Work

There’s another reason not to cram a ballroom to its absolute limit: great service requires room.

Your banquet team needs to move efficiently between tables. Food needs to arrive at the right temperature. Empty plates need to disappear. Drinks need to be refreshed. Guests shouldn’t feel like servers are constantly squeezing behind their chairs.

Abbington prepares its food and beverage on-site, so the ballroom layout and service plan can be considered together rather than treated as completely separate pieces of the wedding.

That’s a detail couples might not think about when they first tour a venue, but they’ll appreciate it when dinner service begins.

Consider Your Older Guests and Guests With Mobility Needs

A comfortable floor plan should work for everyone.

Grandparents, older relatives and guests with mobility needs may require wider pathways and easy access between entrances, tables and other important areas of the venue. Chairs pulled away from tables can also narrow pathways considerably once everyone is seated.

Accessibility shouldn’t be an afterthought added once the seating chart is finished. It should be part of planning the room from the beginning.

Think Beyond the Ballroom

The space you need for a wedding doesn’t end at the reception doors.

Guests need somewhere to park. Your wedding party needs room to prepare. Vendors need access to load in and set up. Out-of-town guests may need nearby accommodations and transportation options.

Abbington offers on-site parking for more than 400 vehicles and is located near major hotels, I-88 and I-355. We’re also conveniently situated for couples and guests traveling from Chicago, Naperville, Downers Grove, Glen Ellyn and throughout the western suburbs.

You can learn more about transportation, nearby accommodations and accessibility on our location page.

See the Space With Your Own Eyes

Square footage, capacity charts and photos are helpful, but nothing replaces actually standing inside a ballroom.

When touring a wedding venue, tell the coordinator approximately how many guests you’re expecting and describe the wedding you’re imagining. Don’t be afraid to get specific.

Want a big band? Tell them.

Planning an elaborate photo booth? Mention it.

Want a huge dance floor because your family never sits down? We definitely want to know that.

The more your venue understands about your vision, the better they can help you determine the space and layout that will make it work.

If you’re still narrowing down your options, you can also explore Abbington’s virtual tour before scheduling an in-person visit.

Find a Wedding Venue That Fits More Than Your Guest Count

Your wedding shouldn’t simply fit inside your venue. It should feel like the venue was made for it.

That’s the advantage of choosing a wedding venue with flexible ballroom configurations, experienced in-house planning, on-site food and beverage service and enough space to accommodate the celebration you actually want to have.

For more than two decades, Abbington has hosted weddings for couples from Chicago, Glen Ellyn, Naperville, Downers Grove and communities throughout the western suburbs. From celebrations of 100 guests to grand receptions approaching 1,300, we’ve learned that the right room isn’t necessarily the biggest room — it’s the one that makes your wedding feel exactly right.

Explore our wedding packages or contact Abbington today to schedule a tour. Bring us your guest count, your ideas and your vision, and we’ll help you figure out how much space your wedding really needs.

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Wedding trends heading into 2026 are all about intention — couples are designing celebrations that reflect their lifestyle, priorities and guest experience rather than following outdated traditions. One trend that continues to grow in popularity is the adults-only wedding. More couples are choosing to host celebrations focused on atmosphere, flow and elevated experiences — and it’s a trend we’re seeing more often at Abbington Distinctive Banquets in Glen Ellyn.

An adults-only wedding isn’t about excluding anyone — it’s about curating a specific kind of celebration. Whether you’re envisioning a romantic candlelit evening, a lively dance floor or a refined sit-down dinner, this approach gives couples more flexibility to bring their vision to life.

Why adults-only weddings are gaining popularity

Couples today are prioritizing quality over quantity and meaningful experiences over expectations. Adults-only weddings naturally support that shift by creating an environment designed entirely for grown-up celebration.

• A more sophisticated atmosphere: Evening receptions, formal décor and elegant dining often pair beautifully with an adult-focused guest list.
• Fewer interruptions: Important moments like vows, speeches and first dances can unfold without distractions.
• Guest freedom: Adults can relax, socialize, enjoy cocktails and stay late without worrying about bedtime schedules.
• More creative flexibility: Couples can lean into upscale menus, signature cocktails and late-night entertainment.

This trend aligns closely with the rise of intentional wedding planning, where couples design their day around what matters most to them — something we often discuss when helping couples define their guest list and overall vision.

The benefits of an adults-only wedding

Choosing an adults-only celebration often simplifies planning while elevating the guest experience. Some of the biggest benefits include:

• Smoother logistics: No need for kids’ meals, activity stations or babysitting considerations.
• More cohesive energy: Guests tend to mingle more freely, creating a lively yet relaxed atmosphere.
• Greater budget control: Guest count decisions directly affect food, beverage and décor costs — something we help couples navigate when building their plans.

Many couples who opt for adult-only weddings also find it easier to create a seamless flow from ceremony to cocktail hour to reception — especially in versatile venues like Abbington’s ballrooms.

How to communicate an adults-only wedding gracefully

Clear and kind communication is key. Most guests are understanding when expectations are shared early and thoughtfully. Helpful approaches include:

• Including a short note on your wedding website or invitations explaining the adults-only format
• Keeping wording warm and appreciative rather than apologetic
• Sharing local childcare resources if many guests are traveling from out of town

Couples often worry about etiquette, but honesty paired with kindness goes a long way — especially when guests understand that the decision supports the overall experience.

Designing an adults-only wedding at Abbington

Abbington Distinctive Banquets is especially well-suited for adults-only celebrations. Our elegant ballrooms, customizable lighting and polished service create the perfect setting for a refined evening wedding. Whether you’re planning a formal seated dinner or a lively cocktail-style reception, our space adapts beautifully.

Couples also benefit from working with our experienced in-house event planning team, who help guide decisions around layout, timing, menu selections and guest experience — ensuring everything feels intentional and effortless.

Is an adults-only wedding right for you?

There’s no universal rule — only what feels right for you as a couple. If your vision includes an elegant evening atmosphere, uninterrupted moments and a celebration tailored to adult guests, this trend may be a perfect fit.

Whether you’re planning a large celebration near Chicago or a more intimate event in the West Chicago suburbs, Abbington offers the flexibility, experience and hospitality to bring your vision to life. Explore our wedding packages or schedule a tour to start planning a celebration that feels authentically yours.